Sleeping while in bondage
Sleeping while in bondage
I was wondering if anyone is able to sleep while in bondage or selfbondage. IVe tried some light self bondage, nothing to restrictive and with quick releases incase I need to get out in a hurry, but ive found it a little difficult to sleep past an hour or at all, Usually I have on my leather ankle and wrist cuffs, posture collar, and a leather corset. I have slept in the posture collar in the past but nothing more than 5 hours. Any feedback welcomed.
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Re: Sleeping while in bondage
I've tried it a couple of times and had best success when tied in a position that's more or less equal to how I sleep normally. I've also read that it takes a few nights to get used to.
You definitely need to be going for a relaxed position - a loose ball tie (if you sleep in fetal position) or spread eagle (if you sleep on your back or your front), for instance. The closest thing you'll get to it in strict bondage is passing out, which is probably not a good idea.
You definitely need to be going for a relaxed position - a loose ball tie (if you sleep in fetal position) or spread eagle (if you sleep on your back or your front), for instance. The closest thing you'll get to it in strict bondage is passing out, which is probably not a good idea.
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It takes lots of practice to sleep in bondage. Try just leg cuffs first, then add the wrist restraint.
A corset takes a long time to get use to, so adding that would be after you concurred all
the rest of the restraints.
Good luck.
Rae
A corset takes a long time to get use to, so adding that would be after you concurred all
the rest of the restraints.
Good luck.
Rae
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Re: Sleeping while in bondage
I've tried it too, and it's very difficult for me, not because of discomfort, but because of the distraction.
It's distracting enough to make it difficult to go to sleep.
Once (and if) I do get to sleep, it messes with my subconscious and makes me dream some very vivid, very intense and very erotic dreams. I wake up extremely aroused.
Then it's the challenge of going back to sleep again even after I've untied myself. Not a very effective method of getting some rest.
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It's distracting enough to make it difficult to go to sleep.
Once (and if) I do get to sleep, it messes with my subconscious and makes me dream some very vivid, very intense and very erotic dreams. I wake up extremely aroused.
Then it's the challenge of going back to sleep again even after I've untied myself. Not a very effective method of getting some rest.
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Re: Sleeping while in bondage
I can sleep in leg cuffs, but currently I cannot do it with my hands restrained. Maybe if I was really tired and sleep deprived (this calls for some experimentation).
The last time I tried it I locked the cuffs one and froze the keys beforehand in to a block of ice. Emergency release was bolt cutters and emt shears.
I was able to sleep, but only a few eye fulls at the time.
Without retrained hands I can sleep the whole night.
It just takes some practice, like said before
The last time I tried it I locked the cuffs one and froze the keys beforehand in to a block of ice. Emergency release was bolt cutters and emt shears.
I was able to sleep, but only a few eye fulls at the time.
Without retrained hands I can sleep the whole night.
It just takes some practice, like said before
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with enough practice you'll end up like me - having a hard time sleeping with *out* bindings. makes traveling hell, lol.
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As long as you're sleeping in a separate room, it's not that big of a problem. There are a few restraint systems that are pretty easy to deploy and fold up to take very little room in your suitcase. The "Under the Bed Restraint System" is one of the more creatively named examples.
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This thread got me thinking of trying the combo locks can't see the numbers in the dark method of being chained to bed for the night, I don't know if I would just accept that Im stuck and sleep like some sort of fun campout in kinky land or would I be up all night feeling panicky about my situation waiting for first light to hurry up so I can open the locks. I guess it would be both wrists above my head and one ankle to the bed frame, a total no escaper but I could roll over and still get comphy.
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I find it difficult to find a padlock that cannot be either seen or felt to undo at night if the sun is a back-up release. If those didn't work, I go through the numbers hoping to get lucky. Not a good way for me to sleep.TdAdvtrs wrote:This thread got me thinking of trying the combo locks can't see the numbers in the dark method of being chained to bed for the night,...
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Re: Sleeping while in bondage
I slept in bondage for a while. I would lock myself in at night and would have to wait for my wife to let me out in the morning. At first we used handcuffs and chains, but she complained about the noise. We then used straps made of webbing about 1 inch wide. The cuffs on my legs were secured with the sort of buckles which click together. They are often used on rucksacks. They don't look that strong, but I could not break them and they were very quick to fit. They were joined by a length of webbing which passed through a loop attached to the foot of the bed. This allowed me to bend one leg a little if I straightened the other. My hands were attached separately to the bed head by straps of fixed length. The straps were as short as practicable. Lying in bed with one leg slightly bent, my hands would not go below my shoulders. I had just enough freedom to turn over. Normally I went to sleep without a problem. If I disturbed my wife or stopped her getting to sleep, she would get up, grab the whip, which was always handy, and order me to turn over onto my stomach. I would receive a few strokes and the command “go to sleep”. Oddly enough that actually worked and I was able to get to sleep more easily.
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That would be impossible with those combo locks with the rotating spin right left right dial , but ya with the 000-999 locks escape is way possible.Riddle wrote:I find it difficult to find a padlock that cannot be either seen or felt to undo at night if the sun is a back-up release. If those didn't work, I go through the numbers hoping to get lucky. Not a good way for me to sleep.TdAdvtrs wrote:This thread got me thinking of trying the combo locks can't see the numbers in the dark method of being chained to bed for the night,...
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I get it, Kinda of cool how being restrained like that, at least in me, creates that like tranquility and feeling safe, self bondage is a trip but not the same as having a keeper.Keyless wrote:I slept in bondage for a while. I would lock myself in at night and would have to wait for my wife to let me out in the morning. At first we used handcuffs and chains, but she complained about the noise. We then used straps made of webbing about 1 inch wide. The cuffs on my legs were secured with the sort of buckles which click together. They are often used on rucksacks. They don't look that strong, but I could not break them and they were very quick to fit. They were joined by a length of webbing which passed through a loop attached to the foot of the bed. This allowed me to bend one leg a little if I straightened the other. My hands were attached separately to the bed head by straps of fixed length. The straps were as short as practicable. Lying in bed with one leg slightly bent, my hands would not go below my shoulders. I had just enough freedom to turn over. Normally I went to sleep without a problem. If I disturbed my wife or stopped her getting to sleep, she would get up, grab the whip, which was always handy, and order me to turn over onto my stomach. I would receive a few strokes and the command “go to sleep”. Oddly enough that actually worked and I was able to get to sleep more easily.
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I think that if you are going to sleep in bondage, I would recommend something nice and light to start with - such as a blindfold and comfortable gag. You don't want to go too overboard at first and then hurt yourself and you also need to think about mobility in case you have to get up in the middle of the night to use the restroom.
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I have seen a few posts where people have said that they find bondage relaxing. I certainly do. I have to be sure that the only ways out are the intended release or the emergency release, otherwise I turn my mind to escaping rather than relaxing. Also, yes, there is something special about having the right keeper in charge.TdAdvtrs wrote:I get it, Kinda of cool how being restrained like that, at least in me, creates that like tranquility and feeling safe, self bondage is a trip but not the same as having a keeper.
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It is the craziest thing , bondage can help me be "free" to relax for a wile .Keyless wrote: find bondage relaxing
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