For males: How to continue enjoying sex after an orgasm

[KinkInSpace]

I was not sure whether this was better suited here or anywhere else on the forum. After you read the post, you'll find out it may even fit chastity. But chastity and getting an orgasm is something that seems to contradict each other by definition, so I've chosen this forum instead.

Introduction
When a male gets an orgasm and cums, they lose their drive to continue. The system got a shock and a "reset" timer is ticking. Depending on the person, it can be somewhere between 10 to 60 minutes for their drive to restore up to a point where they start to get interested in sex again. Its this time the balls need to recover too.

That said, I found a way to be able to continue having sex after an orgasm without losing some of the drive.

Ruined orgasm
I was watching some porn video's and there was this one video that the mistress gave the male slave a ruined orgasm. I was puzzled by what I was seeing, and so I looked up what a ruined orgasm is.

Basically a ruined orgasm is an orgasm where the slave is prevented from sending out his cum as much as possible. Not sure if its possible to completely stop all the cum, but they say it will stop most if not all cum if done correctly.

The trick is to estimate when the slave is about to come and then take off the hands so they're climaxing at the top without getting to that ejaculation spot. Doing this is really hard so they described alternative ways, and I tested one.

As soon as the slave comes and they are about to ejaculate, grab the base of the penis just above the ball sack and squeeze it hard. If done correctly, the penis will do its magic and spasm to ejaculate, but nothing comes out. The spasm will continue longer than normally due to the pressure applied, but eventually gets weaker until it stops. I wasn't sure if it stopped so I released my grip too soon, which I felt let cum get through, so I squeezed it again and waited for it to really die off.

Some cum still came out, but the experience afterwards was really strange. I felt dull from the job, but my sexdrive was still partially in tact. I needed half a minute or so to recover and my penis was very sensitive still, but I was able to continue jerking off.

After effects
My ball timer was not reset though, which meant that it took considerably more effort to come for the second time and quite a bit of time too. 50 to 60 minutes I think? The second orgasm was very powerful nevertheless, but somehow the feeling of victory you normally have at the first orgasm was not felt at all. So it was indeed a ruined orgasm, but it comes with a bonus, which may be worth it.

[Keyless]

I think your scheme might be different from a standard ruined orgasm. As I understand it, most people describe a ruined orgasm as one where the stimulation is stopped when it is too late to avoid an orgasm but before it actually happens. This results in ejaculation with a rather unsatisfying orgasm.I don't think the standard version involves blocking the penis.

I have often wondered about the consequences of ejaculation with the penis blocked. There seems to be very little information. Somewhere I think I read that it might cause a "retrograde ejaculation". This is where the semen is forced back into the bladder rather than out through the urethra. I gather that this happens to some people when they don't want it to. There's information about that, but very little about the consequences of making it happen, or any other harmful consequences of orgasm with a blocked penis.

Unless anyone knows different, I wonder if the procedure you propose could be harmful if used repeatedly. Either way, I'd be interested in any information.

One concern of mine is that the tube of a chastity device should become a tight fit if an erection is attempted. This might block the penis. I wonder if it could be harmful if someone did manage to have an orgasm like that.

[KinkInSpace]

Given that I wear a chastity cage a lot, I can tell you what happens.

Your penis will grow for as much as it can. If your penis is inside a chastity cage that won't allow it to grow, the erection simply happens outside of the penis. Your penis itself stays flaccid and is pushed outwards.

That said, I can get an orgasm without even touching my penis. The human body is wired quite funny in that regards. The same trigger zones for an orgasm that are in the penis and vagina, are also present in the nipples. The right stimulation can therefor also trigger an orgasm.

As for a ruined orgasm, I really did feel like my orgasm was ruined. There was no powerful feeling of accomplishment at either times. And my balls did feel it slightly, so I think the cum stays in the ball sack, not goes to the bladder.

[Keyless]

the cum stays in the ball sack, not goes to the bladder.

Thanks for the info about the effect of an erection in a chastity tube.

I don't think the plumbing works quite like you say. Apparently only a very small amount of your semen is made in your balls. Most of it is made by glands associated with your prostate gland. Your urethra is a tube which passes through the prostate. At one end is the bladder and is blocked except when you urinate. The other end goes down your penis and to the outside. When you ejaculate the semen is forced into the urethra by muscles. If the penis were blocked the semen has nowhere to go, but I don't know if that might be harmful.

Of course, I am no medic so the above might not be quite right. There's lots of details and diagrams on the web if you want to know the details. It is quite interesting if nothing else.

[KinkInSpace]

Dunno myself, but I did it and others do it as well. If it were harmful, I'm sure I would've found out during the research that I did.

I did make a small error in judgement when writing the first post. I thought it would be possible to do this while in chastity too, but you obviously can't reach the area you need to reach to stop the orgasm due to a chastity cage that is in the way. (how I missed that big thing, clueless... )

[KinkInSpace]

I found out yesterday that you can also apply lots of pressure on the muscle itself which is located below the testicles (between anus and penis) It requires lots of force, but it will effectively prevent any cum to come out, making sure that the sexdrive continues (although you will need a minute or two to recover and your body parts will be overly sensitive, not to mention your pain threshold is reset. Try keeping those nipple clamps on now...