Chastity belt security???

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Chastity belt security???

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Are you able to get out of a cb6000 or cb3000 if properelly fitted??? If so how long of messing with it does it take to get it off? Can you feel the slightest erection? Do you have to pee sitting down in it? Then last question how long can you as the replier go in one at one time, without going insane?
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A lot depends on YOU! Even when properly fitted, it may be possible to work the penis out of the cage, and even back through the main ring. It probably won't be possible to get the whole thing off though, since the balls will be trapped between the ring and the cage. If you are completely soft, this can done in a matter of seconds. Getting back in might be a different story however, especially if you are not completely soft anymore! adding the "Points of Intrigue" will make it much harder to slip out, and almost impossible to slip back in.

As for feeling erections, once you swell enough to fill the cage, you will feel the restriction, then if you continue to swell, the pressure will begin to pull the cage and the ring away from your body, and it can quickly become painful. If you have the points installed, the pain can quickly become intense.

As for peeing, you will have to experiment. In theory it should be possible to pee while standing, but unless you are extremely careful about alignment with the drain holes, you may find yourself spraying in all directions! I found that pushing the device firmly back against my body, and making sure the end of the penis is against the end of the cage, and properly lined up eliminates most of the hazards. It is much simpler to sit and not risk the chance of embarrassment due to peeing on yourself.

The longest Mistress has kept me locked up was about 92 days, although the were a couple of times I was allowed out for very brief periods, to change the ring from the hinged version to the solid, and for a more thorough cleaning and inspection to see of there were any problems occurring. I was not allowed to become hard or to orgasm when the device was off for these purposes, and only a very short time was allowed to accomplish the required task. As for going insane, that may be a moot point, as you have to be a little insane to allow yourself to be locked up like this in the first place. Attitude and the reasons for being locked up have a lot to do with it too. I never expected Mistress to keep me locked in for that long, but my submissive side wished only to please Her, so I never complained. It was Mistress's wish that I be locked up, so I was. Since I wanted to please Mistress, I never even considered the idea of pulling out and trying to achieve some form of release. My reward was that when I went to visit Mistress for the first time in person, She knew I had been locked up (and still was when we met) for Her for a long time. She gave me a few whippings with the crop i presented Her with on the day i arrived. I was still locked up, but first thing the next morning, i was given the key and told to remove the device, then given a hard whipping. I was not allowed to orgasm until the last day i was there, when i was topping her. She told me that was my last chance, since she was bound and couldn't stop me. I took advantage of the situation, and finally had an orgasm after being out of the device for almost 2 weeks.

If you are locked up for a long time, eventually you will come to accept that you cannot orgasm, and will adjust to that.
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can't add much to what cdinbonds has said, just a few personal observations.

I can only speak from experience of the CB3000, which, when fitted properly, is pretty much secure. The difference in size between relaxed and erect is quite large for me, something that always worried me in my youth when my penis seemed very small when compared with my peers, but then I didn't see theirs when erect :shock: Consequently when relaxed the cage is very loose, which guarantees pee goes everywhere so sitting down is a necessity !

I haven't actually tried releasing my penis from the cage when relaxed, I think this is part of the element of trust that underlies the reasons for and the desire to be locked in. However, it would be very uncomfortable and achieving a climax would be very difficult.

I know the "points" make the device much more secure, and I can imagine re-fitting after any successfull withdrawal would be extremely difficult. The points also make an erection extremely undesirable - I have mentioned elswhere on this forum the problem of being a masochist in a points-equipped CB3000, pain is a turn-on which leads to erection which leads to more pain which leads to stronger erection which leads to...etc etc

IIRC the longest I have worn one was 5 days, and that was terminated because I suffered severe irritation form the hinge section which resulted in an open sore. I didn't realise what was causing the pain until I asked for permission from My Lady to remove it, and she kindly told me where she had hidden the keys (she was away from home for a week) I have since overcome this problem with a short length of rubber tube over the hinge, which stops skin getting trapped. The solid ring would seem a good alternative.

We now use the CB3000 as part of our play, My Lady sometimes instructs me to wear it for the daytime, leading up to an evening play session. This gets me into "sub" mode and provides a constant reminder of who is in charge, and that some form of play will follow. One day perhaps she will just chain me to the bottom of the bed and go to sleep (she has aleady done that without the CB). I also wear it when she goes away, to reassure her that I will behave myself, something I think is important for reasons I won't go into here.

I think the reaction to being in chastity is very personal, depending on the reasons you undergo it. If you are used to regular sexual activity then chastity, whether enforced or simply the result of circumstances can lead to some discomfort - a syndrome known as "blue balls"! - which is characterised by a dull ache in the groin area, centred not surprisingly on the balls but this fades if you take no action (!) and sexual pressure will slowly decline. That is not to say you will have no psychological effects, but if chastity is enforced to some degree, then that, I imagine, becomes a reward in itself, as cdinbonds implies from his long-term experience. However, the idea that the male will go crazy if not given sexual release is, I believe, an "urban myth" put about by men who have little confidence in their own masculinity.

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Let's be quite clear on this, no tube or cage style device will prevent you achieving an orgasm either by shaking it, using cotton buds poked through the holes or using a vibrator and, unless you're pierced, most people can 'turtle' the penis to get it out and back in. The only way to make orgasms impossible is to wear a proper belt with no way to even see the penis, let alone get anything inside the shielded tube and with a great enough mass and well fitting enough to dampen any vibrations so a vibrator just adds to your frustration.

As for length of time: hygiene is the main criterion and a suitably ventilated tube behind the shield, sized so that there's a small amount of free space around a flaccid penis, should allow cold pre-diluted antibiotic liquid hand-wash to be introduced, shaken as much as you can manage and then rinsed through or you can wear full-cut plastic pants and fill them with the cold antibacterial liquid soap mix while standing in the shower or bath. I've managed 47 days with absolutely no release that way even though I'm 'intact'.

Sorry, guys (and gals), if you want real security for yourself (or your lucky male toy), then a proper belt is the only way.
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That's not true. It is not possible to prevent an orgasm, unless you go to extremes, such as being tied up, but even then, if you are horny enough, willpower alone can get you an orgasm.

If I can't touch my penis because I wear the best chastity belt available, I can still easily get an orgasm by inflicting pain to my nipples in a certain way. This is possible because the same signals that go to your pleasure muscle, also go to your nipples.
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I’ve been in chastity for three years now. I’m allowed out weekly to wash, but other than that my last pleasurable release was my birthday back in August.
We have a number of devices, a cab curve, (first device but too big now) a cb6000s, a birdlock, short holy trainer (favourite) and three cheaper steel versions from eBay ranging from a tiny little dome (wife’s favourite) to a version of the holy trainer.

I can pull out of the tiny metal one, no way back in, but I don’t even try any more.
There are side effects. One being shrinkage. I’m now noticeably shorter, judging from the length of my foreskin now mainly. Gone from a flacid4” and hard7” to a flaccid 2” and hard 5”. Theres also the Stockholm syndrome. I hate the thought of it being removed now. Even though it annoys me when crossdressing, I need it on. And I mean need!

I’ve struggled for years with premature ejaculation, and that’s got quicker, my wife will use her hitachi wand on me and I’m done in under 30 seconds inside the cage.

My birthday in August is down as treat day. Plan being chained spread eagle on the bed and given oral, or a romantic evening with me dressed in my favourite dress, make up etc, and a more sensual Then the cage goes back on.
However my wife suggested the third option, never again.
She’ll still make me shoot while in chastity, but never again through contact.
One time offer. I make the decision on my birthday which is now looming.

It’s very much on my mind. She is not Domme in any way other than chastity and occasional bondage sesssions. Even if I’m wearing a maid uniform while cleaning she won’t bark orders at me.
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Slave_L wrote:... willpower alone can get you an orgasm.
Yep. Sexuality is less about what's between the legs than it is about what's between the ears...
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Slave_L wrote:That's not true. It is not possible to prevent an orgasm, unless you go to extremes, such as being tied up, but even then, if you are horny enough, willpower alone can get you an orgasm.

If I can't touch my penis because I wear the best chastity belt available, I can still easily get an orgasm by inflicting pain to my nipples in a certain way. This is possible because the same signals that go to your pleasure muscle, also go to your nipples.
That may be true of some younger wearers but, believe me, there is absolutely no way I can come in my stainless steel panties.
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Then you simply haven't found the right way to stimulate yourself. If I put a vibrator against any of the many chastity devices that I own (including the ones with sharp and painful spikes) I will easily orgasm.

If I deny direct stimulation on my penis, but I use stimulation on my nipples, together with bondage and watching porn, I can easily get an orgasm too.

For me it is just a matter of exercising the muscles you normally use during sex, and even if there's no direct contact to the penis, the brain thinks it is, and will prepare for ejaculation. Pain, if enough can involuntarily cause you to contract those same muscles which makes the brain prepare for ejaculation too.

The move is to just push your penis forwards or to flex the ass cheek muscles similar of what you do if you are struck hard there. If you keep them flexed, the body anticipates a sexual response. Now, if that move somehow triggers any feeling in your penis, all is accelerated, even if the feeling is not close to giving you an orgasm normally. It are all the small parts that sum it up to that orgasm.

And no, I'm not young anymore myself. Getting close to my 40's.
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I, too, can come in a KTB but I suspect you've not experienced a well-fitting proper belt because the combination of the mass and the damping effect of being tight to the torso when properly fitted defeats vibrators and, by the way, you're over 30 years behind me but, even back in my early 60s, my belt was definitely undefeatable.

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Okay, if you look at it from that perspective, yes, then I'm young. xD
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Ironically some of the best orgasms I have had have been in my holy trainer 2 chastity device. I have to use a vibrator (hitachi) and really concentrate but wow are they powerful. I compare the feeling of being hard in a device as getting a strong erection while wearing a tight pair of jeans. Really the worst thing about it for me is having the tip and urethra exposed and nothing else. Makes it very sensitive and kind of painful. Wish there was a way to cap the thing off. Like a screw on cap for bathroom use?
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