CHASTITY CHALLENGE? RULE LIST?

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CHASTITY CHALLENGE? RULE LIST?

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SO ME AND MY GIRLFRIEND ARE IN A LONG TERM LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP. (male and female relationship). SO WITH THAT BEING SAID, I AM TRYING TO CREATE A " CHASTITY CHALLENGE GAME "
SO THE OBJECT IS TO OUTLAST THE OTHER PLAYER, AND THE WINNER GET TO DO WHATEVER THEY WANT. WITH OR TO THE LOSER.

SO OF COURSE THE ONLY RULE I HAVE IS
1) Neither player can play with or mess with there chastity device.


So as a community help me please, I really would like to start this game on January 1st.
Please add more rules thanks,
Any rule no matter what can be a rule,

I have looked online for hours, and cant find anything, if someone has a list. Please share thank you much,
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You should each get a realtor style lock box and establish accounts on a website like EmlaLock. You should be each others keyholder. If emergency release was necessary the other would have to know about it.
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You should also be aware, that this is going to be much more difficult for the male than it is for the female due to how our bodies work. Males need a release or they go crazy, where females don't have this problem.

But that said, it doesn't really matter if you lose, because playing the game itself is already great fun.

The best thing I can think of in terms of rules, is that each day, both of you must make a photo of yourself showing you in chastity and send it over to the other. Not as a proof that you're still in chastity, but because seeing that is horny as fuck and that makes the game that more enjoyable.

So try to make these nice poses to let the other crave for you. ;) A bit of a "who can win a stare contest?"
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Slave_L wrote:You should also be aware, that this is going to be much more difficult for the male than it is for the female due to how our bodies work. Males need a release or they go crazy, where females don't have this problem.
I wouldn't be so sure about that. I have no experience of course but from what I've read women can need a good "release" as much as any male.
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and if you read the real male chastity blogs, as opposed to the fantasy stuff, you'll see that many men can go for months locked up without going crazy, it just depends upon their partner and their own attitude. The idea of a man being unable to cope with chastity is totally unrealistic. I can only speak for periods of 2 to 3 weeks, from personal experience, but the continual low-level excitement of the contact with the device, and the psychological feelings of being prevented from sexual activity provides an interesting alternative, particularly when you can give your partner serious sexual excitement but not being able to achieve the same yourself.
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Getting to the point where you can wear chastity belt more than 4 days straight takes a ton of practise. That's so far my current limit with Bon4. It's not about going crazy, but worrying on it being in a position where it doesn't start pinching or anything. It starts smelling within 2 days so you need to shower while it's on, and that also causes lock to get wet. Over time it could gather rust if unlucky. Not to mention it makes a bulge in pants, making you unable to go outside your home with it. I tried it once with a quick walk and at least 2 strangers looked suspicious.. never did that again.

So really, if you put yourself in long term cage, be absolutely sure you can handle it and have tried it for months before that. If a steel based cage were to start pinching, you need it open in a matter of 5 minutes or it could become hell.
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Most of the problems with chastity devices are caused by poor design and/or poor fit.

Any device that allows an erection to develop will cause problems, and any that closely encloses the shaft with a tube will be unhygienic, which is why the MatureMetal products are worth the money, as they (in my experience with the JailBird) almost completely stifle an erection and have gaps between the bars to allow easy cleaning. As a bonus, they are much more compact than things like the CBxxxx series, so no visible clue that you are wearing one.

I would agree regarding padlocks, they do add to bulk, and potentially could seize up if not regularly oiled, though good quality locks don't seem to have a problem, as they generally use stainless steel and brass in their construction.
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I wear a chastity cage almost all the time now, where I've gone without sexual release for I think 3 months is my record now? Probably more. I can tell you, I did feel I went crazy. Not the kind of: If you don't allow me sexual release, I'll kill myself crazy, but I started to be more tensed up, having less control of being relaxed the more I got into it. Given that tensing up is a real issue for me, I started to get migraines more and more simply due to that. At first I did not even noticed it was related. But after a while when I had enough of the chastity game and wanted to come, I got so relaxed afterwards that only then I realized what this did to me.

Also, I did look at porn often when I was in chastity, because... well, for me, that's the fun part. It did change me, and I felt more sexually active the whole time, which is nice of course.
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