I did it

Chastity is perhaps the ultimate in long term selfbondage.

I did it

Postby amity » 07 Jul 2018, 07:26

Unbelievable!
I did it.
I have bought a CS 100 some time ago but never had the courage to tell my lovely wife.
But now I have told her I want to wear the Chastity belt.
This weekend.
Of course for her it is a game not a lifestyle, it will probably never be more.
But who cares?
I get my weekend.
You know what she just said when I left the house in my chastity belt.
"Have fun - If you can"
Unbelievable!
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Re: I did it

Postby MKu » 07 Jul 2018, 15:39

amity wrote:Unbelievable!
Of course for her it is a game not a lifestyle, it will probably never be more.

A healthy attitude, i would say.
Indeed over time people got knowledge but no wisdom.

Accidents do not happen, they are caused.
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Re: I did it

Postby sweh » 07 Jul 2018, 18:42

Does she hold the key, as part of the game? If so it may turn into a longer period... if you're lucky ;-)
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Re: I did it

Postby amity » 09 Jul 2018, 06:10

Well, the weekend is over - and yes, she has held the key.
Once we even left the house and she didn`t bring "her" key and the "safty-key" was at home,too.
We were both laughing about this.
What a change from our first talk when she insisted that I could not get outside with the belt on.

She even said that we could do this again, sometime...

It is still only my phantasy - not hers, but I enjoyed every minute.
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Re: I did it

Postby MKu » 11 Jul 2018, 22:04

amity wrote:Once we even left the house and she didn`t bring "her" key and the "safty-key" was at home,too.

Don't do anything you wouldn't want to explain to your paramedic. :wink:
This is not from me but i do support it completely
Indeed over time people got knowledge but no wisdom.

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Re: I did it

Postby lj » 12 Jul 2018, 08:10

MKu wrote:
amity wrote:Once we even left the house and she didn`t bring "her" key and the "safty-key" was at home,too.

Don't do anything you wouldn't want to explain to your paramedic. :wink:
This is not from me but i do support it completely


in my experience dealing with paramedics ( as a First Aider and a patient), they wouldn't ask for an explanation unless the chastity device was the cause of the injury, or got in the way of treating it, they simply focus on the emergency.

If it needed removing, they would either do it themselves if they safely could, or get assistance, probably from the Fire Service (in the UK at least)
be a switch, double the fun :-)
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Re: I did it

Postby Natashahousewife » 14 Jul 2018, 07:03

It’s often said that in chastity males become more docile and submissive, more attentive to their lovers, etc. It’s not true. Submissive men become more submissive, attentive men become more attentive, etc.

But, you could cheat... you could act more attentive, submissive, next time you’re in chastity. I’m pretty sure we used it as part of some S&M fun when we were younger, and I definitely acted on it, and it definitely encouraged my wife to play along more often. Now it’s been 2 years since I’ve had a full day out of one of the 5 cages we own. I don’t think I could be without chastity now, it’s no longer even kinky to us daily, though she does like to play with it in its cage most nights.

I’m so happy for you both, sounds like you both enjoyed it! X
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Re: I did it

Postby Slave_L » 14 Jul 2018, 10:57

One thing I found out with chastity, is that I become more confident. Being able to wear a cage under my clothes without others knowing made me feel like, if I can do this, I can do anything.

The confidence makes me look more outwards and not be afraid, which allowed me to notice stuff more. I think that helps too.
I'm not yet very comfortable expressing my love for kink from my private life. I will therefor hide behind my username Slave_L and not allow any connections to who I really am. I'm sure you'll understand.
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Re: I did it

Postby amity » 17 Jul 2018, 07:19

The best thing about telling my wife is that it is no secret anymore.
It is a kind of liberation.

...and I agree: attentive men become more attentive.
Submission is not really my focus.

It was just one weekend.
I hope for the best :-)
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