Ultimate long-term selfbondage dare

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Ultimate long-term selfbondage dare

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The following dare is probably the longest selfbondage dare you have ever done, because its duration is over a month.

Because of this, it requires some planning ahead in some cases, depending on how you do it, and it has a big "replay value", so the dare can be repeated more than once.

Requirements
- 1 regular dice (numbers 1 to 6) or if you have 7, then use 7.
- A piece of paper or a text file that you can keep safe from anyone.

Chastity
If you are into chastity, there is an optional component. It is not necessary for the dare itself, but it will enhance the experience and makes it more of a chastity dare too.

If you want to do this, then it is vital to do the following prior to start the dare:
- For the next two weeks, you will be in chastity day in, day out. Once a day you clean yourself (chastity cage may be removed for cleaning if that is necessary)
- You are not allowed to get an orgasm. If you do get one (by accident or willingly), punishment is that you start over, so the 2 week period is reset and you are back to day 0.
- Each day, you watch porn for at least 30 minutes.
Once done, you are allowed to start with the actual dare, which takes a month of time. During this time you will obviously still be in chastity with the above rules set with the exception that if you accidentally or on purposely cum, the timer will not reset. If you come on purpose, you will add 1 hour of time to the session, as punishment.
Once you are ready after this month of time, you may remove the chastity cage or leave it on, depending what you have written in your session. Feel free to include a specific chastity cage/belt in your session and switch at the start of the session by taking off the current one, and putting on the new one.

The dare
You will start by watching porn for 30 minutes to get yourself in the mood. If you can't set yourself to it, wait a day then try again.

The dare starts with creating a text document or writing this down on normal paper which you then hide (whatever works for you, as long as it is possible to keep this safe for 31 days.

On this notepad, you write a list with 6 items, and you number them from 1 to 6 accordingly.

Each item consists of a selfbondage scenario you wish to do. You are required to write down the entire scenario from start to finish. You refer to yourself as Slave in the third perspective. The only thing the session cannot contain, is somewhere allowing/requiring an orgasm or more. It can be the reward for doing the session succesfully though.

Wrong: 1. Slave will tie himself to the bed for 30 minutes.

Right: 1. Slave will get fully naked. No clothes are allowed to touch slaves body. Slave will then get leg and arm cuffs. Slave will use arm cuffs that allow himselves to get in and out of without becoming peramently trapped. The leg cuffs slave will use will be padlocked. Slave will prepare the bondage by making sure slave will lie on the bed in a spread-eagle position. Slave places blindfold on the bed. Slave sets an auditable alarm for 35 minutes. Slave now lays on the bed, tying his legs up using the leg cuffs. Slave puts on blindfold. Slave places arms in the cuffs. Slave waits until the alarm sounds. Slave may now get out of his bondage.

If you can't get all 6 scenarios written down, feel free to watch some more porn to get the creative juices flowing again. Alternatively you may wait a day or two. If you then start again, you first have to watch porn for 30 minutes prior to writing the next scenarios.

Once all 6 scenarios are written down, order them from easy to hard scenarios where 1. is an easy scenario and 6. is a hard one. If all scenarios are roughly the same, after carefully judging the demands on the position, change the duration of each session where 1 has a shorter duration and 6 has a long duration.

Save the list and store it safely for the next 31 days.

Yes, you guessed it right, after 31 days, these scenarios will determine the actual dare.

It is important that you wait for exactly 31 days or more starting from the moment you have written down and ordered the 6 items. If you have a calendar, mark that day for you to remember that it is session day.

For the next 31 days, you are not allowed to get an orgasm by pure will. If you are not in chastity, you still are not allowed to get an orgasm, but you do not have to watch porn every day either. If you accidentally cum, the timer does not reset.

On that day, no matter how you feel, you must do the following:

If you only have 1 dice, roll the dice 6 times and write down the numbers you have thrown.
If you have 7 dices, roll 6 dices and place them in a row.

For example: 3 1 2 1 3 6

The 6 throws is your random number generator. The 7th dice or throw will determine from left to right which of these dices/throws has the final number.

So if you now roll a 1 or a 5, the end result is a 3. If you roll a 2 or 4, the end result is a 1.

After you determined which number you rolled, you will open your text document and see what session correlates with that number.

Then you execute that session.

If you do not do this on the exact date specified 31 days ago, for every day that it is earlier or later, 10 minutes of time is added to the session.

So lets say you really are not in the mood for the session, or an important event takes place and you simply cannot do the session and the next opportunity is a whopping 6 days later, then that does mean that 6x10 minutes = 60 minutes, aka 1 hour of additional time. Keep in mind, this added time means that the entire duration of the bondage has to be met. Any form of punishment added by your convenience, such as nippleclamps, a gag, etc. That would make the session nearly impossible or perhaps even harmful does not have to be followed, if deemed unsafe.

If you had written down to lay on the bed naked for 30 minutes, it will now become 1 hour and 30 minutes. If you also added that during the entire time you wear nipple clamps, you may set 2 alarms, 1 for 30 minutes and 1 for 1,5 hour, and remove the nipple clamps at the 30 minute mark (or later, depending on your wish.

If you start the session but abort prematurely, the entire session as found out is to be repeated in the upcoming week. Failure to do so will add 1 hour to the session at the end of the week, with addition of 10 minutes for every day over after that one week. So lets say you wait 8 days after the session failed, then it is 1 hour + 10 minutes for that extra day of additional time. Your 1,5 hour session now becomes 2 hours and 40 minutes.

Once done, you can choose to remove (or move down) the session from your list of 6 sessions so only 5 remain. Next time you do this, you can then use the 5 sessions and only add 1 session. The session you had done can be saved for future reference (in case you need ideas).

As last thing, you are now allowed to get an orgasm.

Good luck, and let us know if you plan to do this session and also let us know if you did it, and what your results are.

Idea behind the session
The idea behind this session is, that when we are horny we sometimes create more serious sessions than we would do when we actually start one. By delaying the entire session for 31 days does a few things. It creates anticipation for the session when you come close to it. It can be joyful but it can also be nervewracking if you know the session could be tough. The random factor will ensure that you are not sure what to expect during these 31 days. In addition it is possible that your state of mind has changed. This will simulate the effect of a Mistress choosing you to be part in a session and you have no say in it.

Because there is punishment involved in delaying it for a day or more, it becomes a motivation to do the session even if your mood is not so much into it.

If all went well, you did not have had an orgasm for 31 or more days. It should make it so that it doesn't matter what day the session is on, you will like to do it anyway.
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Re: Ultimate long-term selfbondage dare

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Awesome idea so I've begun, slight tweak to the lead up as I'm away with work, no chastity available other than the self imposed type that i do when I'm away from home.

So not had any playtime for 21 days, horny as anything, and even more so now I've written my list and picked my date.

I won't be seeing the list again until may 22nd. Slightly worred i was over zealous writing the last scenario so hope i don't get that one. Wish me luck.

Thanks for the idea Slave_L
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Awesome. You are doing it exactly as I envisioned!

Good luck, and keep us posted.

And of course, you're welcome for the idea. :)
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Well I'm still resisting looking at the list again, can remember bits of what i wrote down but not all of it.

Madame made me play a couple of weeks ago but it will still be over a month between that and the 'big day' so as I'm already horny/excited/nervous about the upcoming event i guess it should be pretty intense.

Unlike the suggestion i will not be allowed to make myself climax as only madame gets to decide when that happens, so i it could be a huge tease doing this session as most of the ideas are going to have me rather excited.

Been thinking of getting some new toys to add to the session and making a second numbered list not sure if it would work with the pre planned sessions though.
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Awesome. This is as much a brainfuck as it is a sexual thing. :)

The real thing comes when you are actually going to find out what punishment you will receive. And remember, you are NOT to change the outcome of the roll. If you are disappointed for it being too easy, just play the game another time. If its too hard, too bad. ;)
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How about a program that keeps the scenarios in an encoded text file...
Does the dice rolls and any additional times as needed.
And could be the timer as well...
It could run in the background and at 31 days, tell you to select your fate by pressing the Open button...
Had a thought...
The program could show you 6 buttons and you select one...
BUT, button one may not open scenario #1... (the scenarios will be randomized and, there could be only 1 scenario selected)
(but you will not know...)
Could add an optional tease/ edge once per day...

Just another way to take control away from the slave...
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Now... if only such program existed.

Of course, if it had a Master/Slave mode, where the Master could program in the location of the outcome, making sure that 5 buttons would lead to the 6th challenge, and only one would lead to the 4th one for example. Where upon pressing the button, all options would be revealed, now that would be a thrill.
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When you know how to program, anything is possible...
"Master/Slave mode"? Basically, you are the master when you set it up...
OH!!...
Now I understand your last line...
5 of the buttons point to the same scenario, and just one points to a different one.
(randomly, that could happen)
Then, after you made your selection, you find out what the other choices were?
The program could show the named of the other options after you make your choice.
But only the script for the selected one.
Give me a few days and I'll see what I can get...
I will set up a test mode so that it can be tested out before running 31 days just to find out it did not work,
and you need to start over...
I could also set it up so that you set the number of days you want it to run, 10 instead of 31, or even 45...
And for everyone that really wants to be under it's control... a random cut-off day, selected between a min and a max.
Then you will need to check in every day to find out if it is the "play day"...
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No, I meant: someone else does the master part. So the program can be used by a couple as aid. Though a master/slave mode for single practitioners would also be cool. In that case, I would make a random number from 1 to 5 be the lowest one, and the rest be the 6th.
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I could set it up for multiple users...
Each one could have a separate account.
Master/slave... as in the Master writes up the scenarios?

I could have some behind devious settings where the "randomness" is not so random...
If the scenarios are scored, then the program could weigh a little heaver on the higher numbers...
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No the slave still writes the scenarios. The master can however edit them if they want, but the idea is that the master assigns what button the challenges are going to be behind.

The sole idea of the challenge is that you first get really horny, then write your scenarios (because in this state, you usually go all-out and make things worse than when you are not so horny) A chance factor will decide how bad things are going to be. The idea is that because you know there are easy ones and hard ones, you will accept a hard one easier, unless you really want punishment and prefer a higher chance of getting a hard one, which is where the devilish mode comes in.

But for the entire month of waiting, it is important that you still have a possible outcome of getting either the easiest or hardest challenge presented, or any of the inbetween ones. This makes the anticipation required work, because if you already know from the start that the chances are high that it will be a difficult one, getting the easy one will really ruin the moment.
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Slave_L wrote:No the slave still writes the scenarios. The master can however edit them if they want, but the idea is that the master assigns what button the challenges are going to be behind.
Doable, but with out a safeguard, the slave could set the chances as well.

The sole idea of the challenge is that you first get really horny, then write your scenarios (because in this state, you usually go all-out and make things worse than when you are not so horny) A chance factor will decide how bad things are going to be. The idea is that because you know there are easy ones and hard ones, you will accept a hard one easier, unless you really want punishment and prefer a higher chance of getting a hard one, which is where the devilish mode comes in.

But for the entire month of waiting, it is important that you still have a possible outcome of getting either the easiest or hardest challenge presented, or any of the inbetween ones. This makes the anticipation required work, because if you already know from the start that the chances are high that it will be a difficult one, getting the easy one will really ruin the moment.
Like I said, with a scoring system, it could be weighted to the harder ones.
or, #1 is the easiest, up to #6 being the hardest...
Altho, there is no reason to stop at just 6...
The program can read how many there are and select from that.
But, it could just select 6 for your "options"...
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Writing 6 scenarios is going to be hard on its own, but a program could indeed make you wrote at least 6. If more, then more buttons are shown.
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I have to say with being horny when i wrote then the scenarios weren't that hard to write.

Starting to get very very horny now, woke up in the middle of the night and started playing, hard to stop myself. Had to come and read the thread to see if that was not allowed in the dare as i couldn't remember exactly.

Looks like I'm safe but still got another fortnight to go yet :shock:
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Cumming is discouraged, but not forbidden.

Cumming a lot is a bad thing though, it will diminish the quality of the session to come.
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