How to hide at best the penis?

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How to hide at best the penis?

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Hello,

Doing a bit of crossdressing in my spare time, I always have a problem with hiding my cock. Putting on woman clothes makes me really horny and most of the time being in full erection... Which Is not the best when using skirts and dresses because it stretches the cloth and ruins the effect.

I have tried a cockcage but it remains quite big and somewhat inconfortable in some positions (which could be the seeked effect but that's not the topic!) and also makes it difficult to fully close legs.

Could you share your tips to deal with that? (also with non erected penis, when i ll manage to...)

Thanks!
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The problem of an unwanted erection will always remain if you are excited - you can't help the way your body reacts.

With any form of "play" there is some sexual excitement, whether it is chastity, cross-dressing or a good beating!

In my experience, the more you do, the less immediate the excitement. For example, I used to get an erection at the thought of putting on a chastity device, but as I am locked in one every day, I no longer do - putting it on is simply an everyday act, a part of life. In the same way, I used to cross-dress for regular play-parties, a sort of uniform (underbust corset, stockings, panties, blouse and leather miniskirt, oh and 4" heels) and only developed an erection occasionally during active play, the rest of the time it was simply what I wore when in the play-party.

This may sound like chastity and cross-dressing are uninteresting - far from it, but the familiarity of these things reduces the "instant" stimulation that the OP is experiencing. A lot of the "instant" excitement comes from fantasising about the act, rather than actually doing it as part of life.

On a practical basis, a custom chastity device will make the "bulge" as small as possible, other devices tend to be very bulky. A female figure-forming elastic briefs or panty-girdle would help flatten the bulge, and there are "gaffs" designed to produce the flattened outline approximating to the female shape.
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Chastity is definitely the way to go, but it depends on if you are a grower or a shower and how big your penis is.

If yours is not the biggest in the world and you can fit a Holy Trainer v2 small, then I can guarantee you that it may be a great way to hide your penis.

Alternatively, and this is something you already can try, you could use lots of duct tape and simply tape your penis away.

Keep in mind that you need to do this while it is as flaccid as possible, so any erection will be created as close to the body. You will want to shave your pubic hair completely off prior to doing this, but I have a feeling you already have done that given you're a sissy.

You want to put duct tape above your penis then move the other end between your legs and secure it. The more duct tape you use, the more secure it will be and the less your penis will get off. In fact you can make an entire underpants out of duct tape. Do note that duct tape is very sturdy. It may make it impossible to change posture from walking to sitting if you tape too close to your legs. But if done correctly, it will definitely make you look and feel like a woman.

It cannot prevent an erection, but if you don't make it get really hard, it should not tear the duct tape off.

If you want to experiment, just strip naked, tape your goods in position, then watch porn and see how well it holds.
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What works for me is using a firmer type of womens panty, like "control" briefs and tucking my penis back in that. Light underwear still allows the penis to go erect but tighter underwear doesn't really give it any place to go.
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Thanks for all the great tips and advices, I will definitely try these ideas.

@lj you're totally right. I'm so aroused just by thinking about it that is hard to keep that little guy still down there. The first time a bought a cock cage, I couldn't put it at all... Just by knowing it came by post got me a boner, then opening and seeing it... I remember I tried to stand still, doing something else to distract me until I feel it is flaccid again but as soon as I grabbed the cage I was hard as rock again. I remember that amazing feeling when I could finally look it!

Now I can much better use it. When I know I'll insert it, I still have a semi-erection which allows me to put the cage on by pushing a bit. I feel like putting a collor to a dog that don't want and always think: Calm down down there! You are not gonna win this game! Hee hee.

Btw it is still incredible at the moment a put the lock and lock it. At that exact time I just get a feeling... Still amazes me! Even I I know I may have the key next to me. Just thinking that my penis can't erect without intervention of my hand...
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I have seen also that when the penis is completely flaccid, stretching it backward to cut the ball sack in two makes a nice camel toe effect :D but then must control to keep in place.
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Slave_L wrote:... a Holy Trainer v2 small,..
First time that thing is introduced to me, and got me curious. I've been reading info and reviews and it seems like the most perfect chastity belt ever made. Doesn't let you slip out, points downwards to not bulge much, slightly molds to the body shape, made from nearly indestructible materials allover, completely waterproof, comfortable for long term use, impossible to try cause orgasm... great. I checked 1 local webshop too and noticed it's already out of stock.
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Jadit wrote:
Slave_L wrote:... a Holy Trainer v2 small,..
First time that thing is introduced to me, and got me curious. I've been reading info and reviews and it seems like the most perfect chastity belt ever made. Doesn't let you slip out, points downwards to not bulge much, slightly molds to the body shape, made from nearly indestructible materials allover, completely waterproof, comfortable for long term use, impossible to try cause orgasm... great. I checked 1 local webshop too and noticed it's already out of stock.
For the past months, I'm in and out this device. Its my nr 1 chastity device. I sleep in it, I wear it to work, to shopping, etc.

I allow myself to get out of the cage once every day for cleaning.

Don't get the wrong idea though about it being the perfect chastity device, as there is none.

Although the erection forms outside of the cage, it is still an erection. I can also still get an orgasm while wearing this, and I'm pretty sure there is no chastity cage that will not allow me to come, but that's not the idea of wearing a chastity cage. Just give yourself the rule, that when wearing one, you are not allowed to come, or punishment is given. Whether accidental orgasms count towards punishments is up to you. Could be decided per cage or not at all.

I also have a chastity cage that has spikes inside, and even though just getting an erection is really painful, I have managed to orgasm in it. True, it was a huge challenge, but I did it just to prove that there is no chastity cage that can stop an orgasm.
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It may be different per person. Someone (was it you?) wrote he can orgasm from just nipple stimulation. Such is not possible for me, well any way that isn't directly touching the thing, and not just any touching. So some people are just more sensitive i guess, i'm not. If the cage doesn't slide inside, it wouldn't let me cum. I don't know about that special material though, and if it's a small version it could reduce the chance more still. But is it really secure for "growers" even if in shower and non-erect?
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Jadit wrote:It may be different per person. Someone (was it you?) wrote he can orgasm from just nipple stimulation. Such is not possible for me, well any way that isn't directly touching the thing, and not just any touching. So some people are just more sensitive i guess, i'm not. If the cage doesn't slide inside, it wouldn't let me cum. I don't know about that special material though, and if it's a small version it could reduce the chance more still. But is it really secure for "growers" even if in shower and non-erect?
Yeah, thats me. I can orgasm by inflicting the right amount of pain to my nipples.

I have the small version too. Very secure for growers. I wear it when taking a bath too.

The best thing about this cage, is that if you are watching porn and you are really horny and you start "bumping" your bed, it feels awesome, but it will in no way give you the stimulation required to orgasm, because your pleasure muscle is not hit.

As for getting an orgasm, I'm sure that if I'm horny enough and focussed enough, I am able to orgasm just by thinking/visualizing. Imagining that I'm fucked, creating the sensation as memory and experiencing it that way and believing it is real, I'm sure I will orgasm, which can happen with my hands bound behind my back even.
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