Does anyone else hear the 'voice' in the back of their head (so to speak) when you're planning to do something, and it tries to talk you out of it, no matter how many options you think of to try and make sure that it all works out fine?
If so, how do you beat it?
Ciaran
The 'voice' in the back of your head
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Re: The 'voice' in the back of your head
Let's say that said voice is a good thing - it makes you think things through instead of rushing headlong into something that will eventually make your outer voice say "oh, crap...".
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Re: The 'voice' in the back of your head
Jenny
I totally agree, that little voice is really there to keep you safe. You have to convince it that everything is ok before you get the greatest rush of the whole SB experience, the moment when that last padlock goes 'click'!
Steve
I totally agree, that little voice is really there to keep you safe. You have to convince it that everything is ok before you get the greatest rush of the whole SB experience, the moment when that last padlock goes 'click'!
Steve
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Re: The 'voice' in the back of your head
My head may have the voices backwards. The normal voice says to do your job and responsibilities. The back of the head voice says, "How can we make those jobs more fun".
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I am so smart! I am so smart! S-M-R-T!....I, I mean S-M-A-R-T!