Hello!

[TheWingmen]

Just joined the forum, even though I've been browsing on and off for a while now. I'm a heterosexual college male. Super into being tied up, as well as wearing women's clothing (in particular underwear and bodysuits, the smaller/tighter the better) and anal play. Ive been blessed with a gorgeous girlfriend who is also very into being tied up/doing the tying up. But alas she has no idea about the other two things (I'm too nervous to share) so I must indulge these fetishes myself. Love reading about all your stories and ideas on here and I am pumped to be a contributing member now. If you have a moment head on over to the dares section and check out my post there, would be awesome to get a nice little list of dares that I can do in the next couple weeks while the girlfriend is away.

[bound_jenny]

Welcome to the forum!

Jenny.

[ponylady]

welcome aboard.

..... But alas she has no idea about the other two things (I'm too nervous to share)

let me relate some experiences from an "oldtimer".

in serious relationships the fairer sex can accept/ enjoy the advantages of your "dispostion" *think hourlong shoppingtrips without you getting impatient; styleadvice; lending her your cool clothes, etc*

in my experience my CD was never really an issue in relationships that were already based on/incorperated BDSM. and i did go for the shocker early, as in picking sexually charged situations to slip under the blankets after a long shower with a whole bodyshave including genitals, borrowing her perfume & wearing fishnet-stayups and heels only.

another comingout featured me in my latex-frenchmaidcostume awaiting her after she came home from xmas-shopping with the romantic dinner already prepared.

so, it's a small sample size, but my experience says it depends on your "selling job" & circumstances if she will accept/indulge/take advantage of your crossdressing.

[TheWingmen]

welcome aboard.

..... But alas she has no idea about the other two things (I'm too nervous to share)

let me relate some experiences from an "oldtimer".

in serious relationships the fairer sex can accept/ enjoy the advantages of your "dispostion" *think hourlong shoppingtrips without you getting impatient; styleadvice; lending her your cool clothes, etc*

in my experience my CD was never really an issue in relationships that were already based on/incorperated BDSM. and i did go for the shocker early, as in picking sexually charged situations to slip under the blankets after a long shower with a whole bodyshave including genitals, borrowing her perfume & wearing fishnet-stayups and heels only.

another comingout featured me in my latex-frenchmaidcostume awaiting her after she came home from xmas-shopping with the romantic dinner already prepared.

so, it's a small sample size, but my experience says it depends on your "selling job" & circumstances if she will accept/indulge/take advantage of your crossdressing.

Thanks for the advice. I think she would fully accept it and might find it kinda fun, my issue stems from a past relationship that eventually went bad and she shared it with some of my friends to try and humiliate me (luckily they thought she was making shit up to try and hurt me) but still now the trust is hard to find for it now

[cdinbonds]

Welcome!