well, I've taken the plunge, been "lurking" for quite a while, learnt a lot, discovered some interesting people who seem to share some of my "kinks"
I've been fascinated by bondage since I was around 8, had a friendship with a school friend "killed" by parents who didn't approve of me tying up his younger sister (we took it in turns between the three of us!) so a solo career from then on
also interested in CD, no desire to look like a woman, just enjoy the feel of stockings, tights and recently a corset
have a long and happy marriage but entirely "vanilla" so my SB hobby is my business alone - and yours now
being an Engineer has given me a few opportunties to develop some helpful kit-I'll tell you about the spanking machine later
