New member, Years of self bondage.

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New member, Years of self bondage.

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Hi everyone, I have been getting ideas from this site for years. I am recently divorced and have decided indulge in all those repressed self bondage urges I've been holding onto for around 30 years. I just spent a ton of money on the Stockroom.com and Extreme restraints.com, Mr S. Leather, and a few other sites gearing up for some fetish fantasies. My wife was never able to tie me up strict enough, so that kink never worked for us. I resorted to self bondage sessions and most weren't as strict as I desired.

Today I just received an order of Smith and Wesson large handcuffs. My intention was to use them as strict leg irons with my regular handcuffs, so for a practice run I put them both on and set my K safe to 20 minutes. I used a posture collar and a gag, but that's just more discomfort I wanted. I then clicked a paddle lock between the wrist and ankle chain. I was sitting comfortably on the floor, but within minutes my mind started to mess with me. I had no back up plan. All I could think about was the fact that I couldn't generate enough force in my bondage to break the K safe and there was no way to get free if something went wrong. I couldn't reach a phone, call for help, or do anything but slowly die if the K safe failed. Luckily for me, the K safe worked on time and everything was OK, but I learned a lesson today. However, even with that lesson it was a highly erotic experience.

I have leather restraints as well, and a few still being shipped. But there is something so final about metal that makes it scary.
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Welcome to the forum! :whip:

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Welcome to the Forum.

Glad your failure to set backups ended happily.
Self tied wrote:I have leather restraints as well, and a few still being shipped. But there is something so final about metal that makes it scary.
I know what you mean, you really are stuck when the last lock clicks. :twisted:
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Welcome!
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Welcome aboard.
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Welcome. You said a lot here. I hope you save some for the threads. :hi:

Self bondage safety is a great category to visit for advice on staying safe. You can also share your accidents without judgement. I encourage it. It helps us all learn by example.
We'll give you plenty of advice in self bondage and scenarios. And if you want to dream beyond your limits, fictional stories is great, as sometimes reading stories of things you would never do can still be exciting.
Have fun and let me know if I can be of assistance.
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