Good evening all,
I have been lurking on this forum for a while now, finally decided to sign up and show myself.
Me - I'm a 34 yo straight white Scottish bloke, I live with my female partner.
I couldn't believe my luck finding this forum - I can't believe there are so many people who are interested in SB, for years and years I just assumed myself to be a bit unusual because I liked being tied up.
I have been practising self bondage on and off for around twenty years now, it really took off when I left home and got my own place, though I never really had the money to get the equipment I really wanted. Nowadays I'm a bit better off so have recently done some shopping! I do a lot of metalwork and fabrication both at work and at home, so have made a few bits of kinky metalware recently, which I am still experimenting with.
Really enjoying reading through past and present topics, hopefully I will be able to contribute towards them soon.
Kind regards,
Fifer.
Hi from Scotland
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Re: Hi from Scotland
Welcome to the forum, and be sure to post photos of your kinky metalwork! 
Jenny.
Jenny.
Helplessness is a doorway to the innermost reaches of the soul.
If my corset isn't tight, it just isn't right!
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If my corset isn't tight, it just isn't right!
Kink is the spice of life!
Come to the Dark Side - we have cookies!
Re: Hi from Scotland
Welcome!
Is your partner into bondage also, or are you like many here, having o keep it secret? Just curious.
I second the motion to see some of your metalwork.
Is your partner into bondage also, or are you like many here, having o keep it secret? Just curious.
I second the motion to see some of your metalwork.
There's a fine line between cuddling and holding someone down so they can't get away.
The beatings will continue until morale improves.
Do not meddle in the affairs of dragons - for you are crunchy and good with ketchup.
The beatings will continue until morale improves.
Do not meddle in the affairs of dragons - for you are crunchy and good with ketchup.
Re: Hi from Scotland
Thanks guys.
My partner is very open-minded, we did our first session together quite recently. She'd never been properly bound before so I didn't want to go too heavy for her first time. I put her in a hogtie using leather wrist and ankle cuffs and padded collar, secured with a length of chain and padlocks. A little bit of gentle spanking and teasing followed; I released her after 10 minutes of restraint. She said that she found the biggest turn-on was not knowing what I was going to do to her next, that and the fact she was unable to get away from me. I didn't gag or blindfold her as I felt this may be too much for her first attempt, I also explained that should she feel panicky or uncomfortable then the session would end immediately.
I was so excited that she wanted to join me, I didn't dare do anything which would put her off engaging in future sessions!
She is aware of my interest in SB, I came clean to her some time ago about this, I felt that if she were to discover me self-tied there would be a lot of explaining to do! However, I was not prepared for her response - " I knew you were a perv, it's no surprise". She then went on to tell me that she'd found a butt plug and restraints under my bed, a few years ago when we were still dating! I suppose this must have given the game away
I'll post some pictures of my metalware shortly, I am off out to my workshop this morning to finish welding up a nice steel spreader bar
Regards,
Fifer.
My partner is very open-minded, we did our first session together quite recently. She'd never been properly bound before so I didn't want to go too heavy for her first time. I put her in a hogtie using leather wrist and ankle cuffs and padded collar, secured with a length of chain and padlocks. A little bit of gentle spanking and teasing followed; I released her after 10 minutes of restraint. She said that she found the biggest turn-on was not knowing what I was going to do to her next, that and the fact she was unable to get away from me. I didn't gag or blindfold her as I felt this may be too much for her first attempt, I also explained that should she feel panicky or uncomfortable then the session would end immediately.
I was so excited that she wanted to join me, I didn't dare do anything which would put her off engaging in future sessions!
She is aware of my interest in SB, I came clean to her some time ago about this, I felt that if she were to discover me self-tied there would be a lot of explaining to do! However, I was not prepared for her response - " I knew you were a perv, it's no surprise". She then went on to tell me that she'd found a butt plug and restraints under my bed, a few years ago when we were still dating! I suppose this must have given the game away
I'll post some pictures of my metalware shortly, I am off out to my workshop this morning to finish welding up a nice steel spreader bar
Regards,
Fifer.
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Re: Hi from Scotland
Welcome aboard!
Congrats for having the guts to tell your partner right away that you are into (self-) bondage.
What a piece of luck that she's at least interested!
Joe.
Congrats for having the guts to tell your partner right away that you are into (self-) bondage.
What a piece of luck that she's at least interested!
Joe.
Life is what happens, while you are making other plans.
We won't stop nagging - because we care!
We won't stop nagging - because we care!
Re: Hi from Scotland
he didn't, joe.CaptainJoe wrote: Congrats for having the guts to tell your partner right away that you are into (self-) bondage.
reread the 2nd paragraph
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Re: Hi from Scotland
Hi Fifer, from another Scot.
Cant wait to see your metalworking. I love metal harnesses and restraints.
Jo
Cant wait to see your metalworking. I love metal harnesses and restraints.
Jo
