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by stapack
26 Jul 2015, 22:30
Forum: Software
Topic: SBBJ v2
Replies: 289
Views: 196984

Re: SBBJ v2

stapack, Failed attempts are not the same as successful ones, as long as you configure a punishment. The idea here is to allow session planning to accommodate: minimum number of attempts required. You need to start somewhere. maximum number of attempts possible. Some may configure these to be reall...
by stapack
25 Jul 2015, 04:20
Forum: Software
Topic: SBBJ v2
Replies: 289
Views: 196984

Re: SBBJ v2

Take a deep breath and read my post again. I was neither being grumpy nor ranting, only observing a weakness that completely undermines the point of the software. But since you took it that way now I have to work against the insinuation. What to do, add more emojis? :D 8) :lol: :P :| :hi: :hi: First...
by stapack
21 Jul 2015, 20:59
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: The perfect self-bondage solution (vacbed)
Replies: 23
Views: 12108

Re: The perfect self-bondage solution

making the seal solo, obviously from inside, does in fact make it considerably more difficult. I would think that's a readily solved engineering challenge ;) I bought this waterproof/airtight zipper from here http://store.hastenzone.com/index.php?cPath=1&osCsid=fa3a4a1a064fbc373d8c12f61a71eda1 ...
by stapack
21 Jul 2015, 03:02
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: The perfect self-bondage solution (vacbed)
Replies: 23
Views: 12108

Re: The perfect self-bondage solution

So... why is it that solo vac-bed play is one of a handful of subjects in the topic that people feel so free to phrase their beliefs as a dictate to all instead of discussing their own willingness (lack thereof)? Matt's death seems to come up reliably, but to my knowledge that was definitively iden...
by stapack
20 Jul 2015, 22:00
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: The perfect self-bondage solution (vacbed)
Replies: 23
Views: 12108

Re: The perfect self-bondage solution

The secret to living a full life is not so much exposure (of lack of same) to danger, but mitigating risk. By nature, self-bondage is dangerous, but we mitigate the risk of encountering danger by taking the required precautions. Risk management is our business. We must become experts at it. Jenny. ...
by stapack
20 Jul 2015, 07:08
Forum: Software
Topic: SBBJ v2
Replies: 289
Views: 196984

Re: SBBJ v2

I don't see the point of this software if failed attempts are counted the same as successful ones, plus a punishment. If I set a maximum number to 500, I'll get there even if I nudge the thing with my nose.
by stapack
20 Jul 2015, 07:04
Forum: Selfbondage safety
Topic: Vacuum bed self bondage
Replies: 53
Views: 40884

Re: Vacuum bed self bondage

"You'll shoot your eye out!" That's what this thread sounds like. I've used vacbeds solo off and on for many years without issue. Make sure your neck gasket fits properly. Use a backup timer. Modern vacuum cleaners have temperature fuses. Like most things, it's not idiot-proof. So, are you...
by stapack
20 Jul 2015, 02:25
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: The perfect self-bondage solution (vacbed)
Replies: 23
Views: 12108

Re: The perfect self-bondage solution

I am aware of Matt's unfortunate death at Kink Engineering. The neck gasket was too small as it was not designed for him and put too much pressure on his carotid. Matt may have been an expert in making and selling vacbeds but that does not go hand-in-hand with being thoughtful and smart about solo p...
by stapack
19 Jul 2015, 09:12
Forum: Software
Topic: SBBJ v2
Replies: 289
Views: 196984

Re: SBBJ v2

hi all, I'm using this on a mac, I stupidly closed the pane that has "settings, camera select, colors" etc and I can't seem to get it back. I've tried to reinstall and nothing seems to work.. any ideas? thanks s Go to the Preferences folder in your Library, delete the SBBJ folder, then re...
by stapack
19 Jul 2015, 05:25
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: The perfect self-bondage solution (vacbed)
Replies: 23
Views: 12108

Re: The perfect self-bondage solutions

You're using the wrong peanuts. I use green Pelaspan PAC, which are those green S-shaped peanuts, and they bounce back just fine. They do crumble though, but that only makes it more comfortable!
by stapack
18 Jul 2015, 22:16
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: The perfect self-bondage solution (vacbed)
Replies: 23
Views: 12108

The perfect self-bondage solution (vacbed)

Over the years I have been seeking a self-bondage solution that adheres to a few requirements: -completely inescapable, -easy to use, -no riskier than other common physical activities, and -is inconspicuous or easily packed away. After many years, I think I've found two solutions that fit the bill. ...