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- 30 Apr 2020, 06:26
- Forum: Selfbondage discussions
- Topic: new game to play
- Replies: 1
- Views: 1251
Re: new game to play
so, as i was working a bit of overtime today, i thought of an idea. why not spend one hour in bondage for each hour of overtime i work? i think of it as another way to incorporate bondage into your every day life. :) so im going to set my kitchen safe to release my keys after 6 hours tonight. i'll ...
- 18 Mar 2020, 07:36
- Forum: Everything else.
- Topic: Corona
- Replies: 953
- Views: 211886
Re: Corona
Down to gatherings less than 10. In case I decide to invite 10 of you to hang out, just know that the list may not be in the order of how much I like people here, but who can help with projects we are working on for the site. Just for now. Then after we beat this thing, it will be the more the merr...
- 29 Jul 2019, 15:50
- Forum: Selfbondage discussions
- Topic: New type of timed lock
- Replies: 5
- Views: 1698
New type of timed lock
Anyone tried this? https://www.etsy.com/dk-en/listing/649066083/electronic-high-security-timer-lock?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=selfbondage&ref=sr_gallery-1-1&organic_search_click=1&frs=1 Seems studier than the chinese ones, ...
- 07 Feb 2019, 10:45
- Forum: Selfbondage discussions
- Topic: My reintroduction to (self)bondage!
- Replies: 7
- Views: 2770
Re: My reintroduction to (self)bondage!
Tomorrow I’ll be starting my week long scenario. I did some pondering (all day at work 8) ) on deterrents/rules and here’s what I came up with! 1: I am allowed a maximum of 2 hours each day free of restraints. 2: I am allowed a maximum of 4 hours each day in which I will only be required to wear my...
- 25 Jan 2019, 12:50
- Forum: Selfbondage discussions
- Topic: General Ideas for male Self-bondage.
- Replies: 4
- Views: 5357
Re: General Ideas for male Self-bondage.
I cant weigh in much on the multiple orgasms, but I want to second the suggestion to use chains and padlocks. I have a lot of experience in self bondage using metal and shackles. First, using chains around wrists and ankles can be very uncomfortable, as can handcuffs (though they are a good place to...
- 21 Jan 2019, 07:35
- Forum: Selfbondage discussions
- Topic: What is your current/was your last: selfbondage experience?
- Replies: 478
- Views: 138847
Re: What is your current/was your last: selfbondage experien
I had a few hours to myself the other night, so I did a few quick ties (didnt risk any timed release mechanisms). First, I hogtied myself by shackling my ankles (heavy, 5 cm wide shackles) and running a chain from them to a broad, heavy metal collar. I put shackles on my wrist and chained them to th...
- 22 Sep 2018, 20:52
- Forum: Selfbondage discussions
- Topic: Would you do a full week?
- Replies: 9
- Views: 4702
Would you do a full week?
This summer, I managed to stay in bondage for a week (a couple different ties a day and my hands in shackles or cuffs at all times, including nights) with only 6 hours in total out of restraints for shopping and a social call. It was fantastic, and I hope to do it again someday (I had a week off wor...
- 06 Jul 2018, 07:59
- Forum: Selfbondage discussions
- Topic: What is your current/was your last: selfbondage experience?
- Replies: 478
- Views: 138847
Re: What is your current/was your last: selfbondage experien
I recently had a few days to myself, but I had to work as well. I really like the idea of being shackled for long stretches of time, mixed with more restrictive ties. So I challenged myself; I had to be chained/shackled every second I was home. My wife left home late afternoon on day 1, and with wor...
- 29 Apr 2018, 06:00
- Forum: Bondage
- Topic: Lockable collar recommendation thread
- Replies: 16
- Views: 8428
Re: Lockable collar recommendation thread
Hello Dante33, Thanks for sharing! Where did you get the one in the back? I'm curious, do you just enjoy the added weight or is the increased hight enough to force you to straighten out your neck? The black one in the back is from https://peitschenhandel.de/ - they have a great selection and does c...
- 24 Apr 2018, 06:43
- Forum: Bondage
- Topic: Lockable collar recommendation thread
- Replies: 16
- Views: 8428
Re: Lockable collar recommendation thread
Congrats on the collar, looks funky!
I love metal collars, so delightfully restrictive. Mine are quite a bit bigger and heavier I own 4 metal collars and 2 leather, I uploaded a pic of a few of them.
I love metal collars, so delightfully restrictive. Mine are quite a bit bigger and heavier I own 4 metal collars and 2 leather, I uploaded a pic of a few of them.
- 06 Mar 2018, 17:21
- Forum: Selfbondage discussions
- Topic: Help me choose my new toys
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2511
Re: Help me choose my new toys
http://peitschenhandel.de/ is a great site. Yes, you need to use their 'google translate' site translater, but their goods are top notch and they are very helpful (also in english.)
- 21 Jan 2018, 12:54
- Forum: Bondage
- Topic: Catharsis?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 4845
Re: Catharsis?
The idea of meditative bondage is very interesting, though I havent really achieved it myself. I do recall a session with my ex, where she hogtied me with metal shackles and attached a metal collar with a chain to my feet and hands. The collar was very tight (it was ordered for her), but it felt gre...
- 05 Dec 2017, 20:50
- Forum: Selfbondage discussions
- Topic: The mind of the self bondager
- Replies: 19
- Views: 7590
Re: The mind of the self bondager
It's a great question. I guess I'm a 'switch' - I get turned on by both the submissive and dominating aspects of bondage. I've done some with the GF years ago, but it never really worked out. I switched to selfbondage instead - I dont really mind not having bondage as part of my relationship, though...
- 12 Nov 2017, 09:00
- Forum: Everything else.
- Topic: Death of the BDSM websites?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1658
Death of the BDSM websites?
I've noticed, over the last couple of years, that the amount of good BDSM websites are getting smaller every day. I primarily enjoy metal bondage, so I'm sad to see great sites like shackledmaidens, steelsubmission and the like closing. Kink.com has drastically reduced content due to cash-flow issue...
- 29 Oct 2017, 13:59
- Forum: Selfbondage discussions
- Topic: Types of cuffs
- Replies: 9
- Views: 5547
Re: Types of cuffs
Thanks for the advice, seems the key is you get what you pay for. I'll definitely have a look at whats local but even though I live in a pretty liberal city it might just be cheap tat. Asking some of the locals isn't a bad idea too, i'd been putting it off. Thanks for the links and the info. Dante,...